Monday, April 29, 2013

2nd?

There are times in your life when you have a dream, and all that you want at that time is for that dream to come true.  You have had those times, haven't you? It is just about all that you can think about, no matter what time of the day.

How do you feel when that dream - that you consider yours - is taken and orchestrated by someone else?  It sort of hurts, doesn't it?

But then again, what if that fact that you are not the primary orchestrator is best for the dream and its fulfillment?  What if is is for the good of all - including you - that you must be second in command?

That happens to all of us and what we need to learn is that sometimes in life, stepping back and letting others excel where they are the most gifted is just the right thing to do.  It does not mean that you are being "walked over" or patronized; it simply means that you cannot let your ego dictate what is best for all.

A hard lesson to learn, I agree, but one for which you will learn will enhance you and all of the world around you!

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Service. Yes!


I woke up this morning with the intention of serving.  It is a beautiful day and I live close enough to the beach that I could have headed east, spread out my towel, set up my beach chair, opened my Kindle and read. What I did do, however, was to search for the address of the location in Jupiter where Habitat for Humanity is building homes.   Dressed in jeans, a comfortable shirt, tennis shoes and a hat, I walked up to a few gentlemen at the site and asked how I might help.

There are many fabulous things about Habitat for Humanity, but one of the best in my opinion is that you can walk right up and help.  There is no vetting - well, you do sign a release form - and in no more than two minutes after arriving, you are working.

In the past I have enjoyed painting rooms and the like, but this morning, they needed weeding.  I don't really enjoy weeding, especially when the temperature is on the rise, but once I buckled down and started, it was really quite rewarding. I particularly enjoyed chatting with the other "weeders" who agreed with me that it is not very amusing to pull weeds, but the end product - seeing the landscape improve little by little - most certainly is.